The Anxiety of Holding a Trade — Why You Can’t Just Let It Run

The Anxiety of Holding a Trade — Why You Can’t Just Let It Run

26 October 2025, 17:18
Issam Kassas
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😰 The Anxiety of Holding a Trade — Why You Can’t Just Let It Run

🎯 The Lesson

You finally take a good setup.
It’s in profit.
And instead of feeling calm, you’re refreshing the chart every five seconds like it owes you something.
Welcome to trade anxiety — that quiet fear that your winner might disappear.

🧠 What Really Happens

When money is on the line, your brain treats it like danger.
Your fight-or-flight system activates — heart rate goes up, focus narrows, logic fades.
So you start doing weird things:

  • Moving stops too early.

  • Closing trades before the target.

  • Second-guessing every candle.

You’re not managing the trade anymore — you’re managing your emotions.


💡 The Fix: Trust the Math, Not the Moment

If your setup has an edge, one trade doesn’t matter — the series does.
That’s how professionals think.
Instead of asking “Will this one win?”, ask:

“If I take this same setup 100 times, will it make money overall?”

That question shifts you from emotional outcome to statistical thinking.
And once your brain starts trusting the math, it relaxes.


🔑 Practical Rule: The ‘Set-and-Step’ Habit

After entering, set your stop loss and take profit.
Then step away — literally.
Go stretch, grab water, do push-ups, anything.
The less you stare, the less your fear controls you.


🚀 Takeaway

Good trading isn’t about doing more.
It’s about interfering less.
If your plan is solid, your best move is to let the market do the work.